Tuesday, November 5, 2013

Scared to love ?



This is not my work, but a re-share from Healing light , Facebook.

Soul's message: The intellect employs an interesting strategy to avoid feeling insecure and facing possible pain or disappointment, especially in matters of the heart: It gathers as much information as possible in advance of a commitment. This works up to a point, but it will never be a substitute for gaining the wisdom and understanding that only come out of direct experience. 

Your soul's purpose right now is to learn about love by entering intimate relationships. Surrender control, and open your heart to these lessons. Ignore secondhand opinions and warnings from others to play it safe, and give in to intimacy. 

Your soul's lesson: Stop trying to avoid pain and disappointment by withholding your heart and commitment. Reflect on and decide what type of love you want from others, and then ask for it! If you don't know what you're looking for, you can't expect anyone else to know, so be honest and take your time. 

If you're afraid of intimacy or fear rejection, admit it. And don't give more to others than you feel comfortable with, only to resent it later when you don't collect the anticipated return. ~~


Source : healing Light Facebook 

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